The Gut's Secret Language: How Your Body Tells You What Your Mind Won't Hear
The Gut Knows Before You Do.
Part 2 in the series: Decoding Your Body's Messages
Your Gut Always Knows First
It tightens when something's off. It drops when bad news arrives. It churns when you're about to betray yourself.
Long before your mind assembles the evidence, your gut delivers the verdict: nourishing or toxic, yes or no.
The gut is both gatekeeper and guardian—discerning what to absorb and what to expel, what nourishes and what poisons. It's the core of our being, the power center where we process and metabolize everything: emotions, thoughts, food.
In the last piece, we explored the heart—where love and grief are held. Now we descend lower, to the gut: your inner guardian, the seat of instinct, the place where power either flows or fractures.
The Enteric Nervous System: Your Body's Second Brain
The gut contains over 100 million neurons—more than your spinal cord. Scientists call it the enteric nervous system, a neural network embedded in the walls of your digestive tract that operates semi-independently from your brain.
It produces 95% of your body's serotonin. It communicates constantly with your brain through the vagus nerve. These signals travel upward—from gut to brain, not the other way around. Your gut is informing your thoughts, your moods, your sense of safety, moment by moment.
The gut is the noisiest part of the body. It speaks through groans, grumbles and toots. The rumblings of a sleeping giant. The gurgling of a baby's wet giggle. The abrupt trumpet solo that no one asked for.
But the gut doesn't just digest food. It digests life.
Every experience you couldn't metabolize. Every truth you swallowed to keep the peace. Every time you said yes when your body screamed no. The gut absorbs it all—literally and energetically. And when it can no longer process what you're taking in, it speaks. Through cramping, inflammation, shutdown, disease.
We already know this truth—our language proves it. We say "I can't stomach that" when something violates us. We feel "butterflies" when nervous, "gut-wrenching" pain when betrayed, a "gut feeling" when instinct speaks. These are somatic truths disguised as figures of speech. The body speaking what the mind refuses to hear.
When Your Inner Guardian Goes Silent
When emotions overwhelm, the gut paralyzes. Breath stops. Every muscle tenses—body, diaphragm, gut—bracing for pain that may or may not come.
The holding begins.
You swallow the questions: Will you help me? Will you listen? Do you want to know me?
You hold the fear that you won't like the answers. Or worse—that no answers will come. So you don't ask. You hold. In silence.
The buildup becomes disease.
You absorb the energy—the fear, the sadness—of your families and their families before them. Recycling pain across generations. Never fully digesting. Never eliminating.
You keep holding on. Guarding. Because if you let go, your world might disintegrate. There will be no boundary, no container. You'd lose everything.
So you build walls within. To stay safe.
How Trauma Lodges in the Gut
Trauma doesn't just happen to the heart. It lodges in the gut, too. It severs the connection between instinct and action.
When you grow up in environments where your instincts are dismissed, overridden, or punished—when you're told you're "too sensitive" or that your feelings don't matter—you learn to mistrust the very system designed to protect you.
You stop listening. You override the signals. You eat what you're given, emotionally and physically, even when it makes you sick.
Maybe you learned that saying no meant punishment. That expressing disgust was rude. That your boundaries were negotiable. So you swallowed your truth. You smiled through violation. You digested what should have been expelled.
Over time, the gut begins to rebel. It tightens and inflames. It stops moving altogether. Because when you can't say no with your voice, your body starts saying it for you.
The Gut-Brain Axis: Where Mind and Body Meet
Science calls it the gut-brain axis—this constant conversation between your belly and your skull. But ancient traditions always knew: the gut is where you know things.
The Vedic system calls it Manipura, your solar plexus, the fire that transforms what you take in. Chinese medicine maps worry and overthinking directly to the spleen and stomach.
When the gut is balanced, you move through the world with clarity and confidence. You trust your instincts. You hold boundaries without guilt. You digest what serves you and release what doesn't.
When it's blocked, you feel powerless. Uncertain. Like life is happening to you instead of through you.
The Science of Gut Permeability and Emotional Boundaries
The trillions of bacteria in your gut—your microbiome—directly influence whether you feel anxious or at ease. Chronic stress loosens the junctions between intestinal cells. Your gut becomes permeable. Undigested particles leak into your bloodstream, triggering inflammation.
Recent research in epigenetics shows trauma—both personal and intergenerational—leaves marks that affect gut function. Stress literally rewires your gut's biology, altering everything from how you absorb nutrients to how your immune system responds. This is how emotional pain becomes physical: cramping, inflammation, shutdown, disease.
Your gut becomes permeable energetically, too. When you can't hold boundaries with people, when you absorb everyone's stress, when you let others' emotions flood your system—your body can't tell the difference between a physical invader and an emotional one.
Healing the gut means restoring your inner guardian, the part of you who knows what belongs and what doesn't, the one who's been trying to protect you all along.
When Your Inner Guardian Awakens
When you finally release the grip—when you stop building walls and start listening—your core reveals what it's been guarding.
When fire ignites in the solar plexus, when you walk in alignment with your truth, you become the powerful creator of your experience.
The chakra opens. Light moves through the central channel. Breath, heart, mind, and gut align in symphony.
There is a spark. A deep excitement for life. It fuels you, moves you forward with intention and direction, bringing you to your highest purpose.
When you listen to the gut, it becomes your most trusted guide—telling you, in an instant, what's safe and what's not. What nourishes and what depletes. What's yours to carry and what you must release.
The Gut's Emotional Language: Understanding What Your Body is Saying
Emotions ripple through the body, moving from organ to organ, translating into different physical languages.
Fear grips the chest, then tightens the gut, braces the diaphragm, silences the voice. Grief aches in the heart before it lingers in the belly, slowing digestion, holding the breath hostage. The same core emotions—fear, grief, shame, control—appear across different organs because the body speaks in layers. Each organ translates emotional frequency into its own distinct physical experience.
Your gut clenches what your heart cannot bear. Your liver rages where your throat fell silent. The body doesn't lie—it keeps score and keeps whispering until you're ready to listen.
Where the heart holds love and grief, the gut stores fear, shame, anger and courage. These are the core frequencies most deeply expressed through your digestive system.
Fear: The Frozen Breath
Fear is cold. A frozen breath coiled deep within our core. It's what keeps us caged, limited, alone.
Chronic fear freezes the gut. Movement slows. We become constipated, bloated, stuck—our bodies mirroring the paralysis inside.
Anger: The Electric Fire
Anger is electric. White hot. It ignites instantly—a fire fed by fear, frustration, hurt, and helplessness.
Anger activates the fight response: cortisol floods the bloodstream, muscles tense, energy surges to the limbs. Heat rises, creating pressure and internal stress that disrupts balance when it can't be released.
Shame: The Lowest Frequency
Shame is a filthy black hole. It devours hope, love, self-worth, identity. Shame is the lowest vibration in the universe—the frequency of erasure.
It collapses the chest, tightens the diaphragm, and clenches the gut into a small, guarded space. Breath becomes shallow. Digestion stops. The body shrinks, trying to disappear.
Courage: The Golden Glow
Courage is the warm golden glow of self-exploration and expression. It transmutes rage into presence and power.
Courage regulates the nervous system, expands the chest, steadies the breath, and anchors the gut—signaling safety and alignment even when facing the unknown.
What Your Gut Symptoms Are Actually Telling You
These emotions don't just pass through you. They lodge. And when they can't be expressed, when there's no safe way to release them, they reshape your body. Fear becomes IBS. Shame becomes inflammation.
Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS): The Vigilant Gut
IBS isn't just about what you ate. It's the echo of a nervous system that's been on high alert for too long—years, maybe decades.
The gut, intimately tied to our stress response, learned early on that safety was unpredictable. So it stayed vigilant. Cramping. Twisting. Holding tension in anticipation.
Many who live with IBS grew up with emotional inconsistency. Environments where you couldn't let your guard down or where you had to learn to cope and fend for yourself. Where calm was followed by chaos, and peace felt like a trap. So the body became a scanner, the gut its antenna—constantly bracing for what's next.
For others, it's the byproduct of people-pleasing. The chronic override of your own needs. Performing calm while boiling inside. Saying yes when you meant no. Over time, your gut holds the resentment you won't speak. It gets irritated because you are.
IBS becomes a conversation you're not having. A boundary not being held. A truth being swallowed instead of shared.
Reflection Questions:
When did my body first learn it needed to stay on guard?
Where am I still living as if the danger never ended?
What boundaries feel hard to hold?
What truth have I been swallowing?
Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD): When the Body Turns on Itself
When the gut turns on itself, it's often because somewhere along the way, we did too.
IBD reflects a body that's been taught to treat parts of itself as wrong. A core belief that says: "Something inside me is bad. I am too much."
These beliefs are often planted in early wounds—constant criticism, emotional abandonment, or deep unmet needs that made you feel unlovable unless you performed. Over time, this shame turns inward. The immune system starts to attack the gut, the very place where we process the world. The body internalizes the message: If I am the problem, then I must be fixed—even if that means hurting myself in the process.
This pattern can emerge after long exposure to toxic environments, relationships that felt like poison, or belief systems that asked you to silence your truth. Your gut—the seat of discernment—can only take so much before it revolts.
Reflection Questions:
When did I start believing something was wrong with me?
Where am I still trying to earn love through perfection?
What toxic energy or belief have I been forcing myself to digest?
Constipation: The Body's Grip
Constipation is the body's grip. A refusal to let go—even when holding on hurts.
It often reflects deep patterns of control. Needing certainty. Fearing change. Wanting to prepare for every outcome so nothing catches you off guard. The gut reflects this with tightness, resistance, and withholding.
It can also point to emotional stagnation. Holding on to stories, roles, relationships that no longer serve. Or clutching past pain, afraid that if you release it, you'll lose a part of yourself.
Reflection Questions:
What am I holding on to that's ready to be released?
Where has control become a cage?
What would change if I loosened my grip?
What am I afraid might fall apart if I let go?
Diarrhea: Emergency Evacuation
Diarrhea is emergency evacuation. It's the gut's way of saying, "I can't hold this anymore."
It shows up when you're processing too much, too quickly—grief, fear, change, energy, emotion. When you're overloaded, your system speeds up, trying to eliminate what it can't integrate.
This pattern often traces back to early wounding—rejection in childhood, sometimes even prenatal stress absorbed in the womb. The nervous system learned that the world wasn't safe, that vigilance was survival. These bodies learned to grip problems rather than release them, to scan for danger instead of resting into joy. Letting go feels like freefall when you've been braced for impact your entire life.
This often surfaces in people with porous boundaries. Empaths. Caretakers. Those who absorb everyone else's crisis and forget to check in with their own. Your gut doesn't know what's yours, so it tries to release it all.
Reflection Questions:
What am I urgently trying to purge from my life?
Where am I overloaded?
What would change if I stopped carrying what isn't mine?
What boundaries would allow me to slow down?
Ulcers: The Internal Burn
An ulcer is a burn from within. A place where the gut lining wears down from too much acid, too much pressure, too little protection.
It can signal chronic self-criticism. Unrelenting pressure to be perfect. Or rage turned inward—anger you weren't allowed to express, so it fermented instead. It eats away at you from the inside.
Ulcers often emerge in those who learned early that their needs didn't matter—that worth came from output, not from being. Self-criticism becomes the default setting. Anger, having nowhere safe to go, turns corrosive. Care for oneself feels indulgent, even forbidden. The pressure grinds away at the very lining meant to protect you.
Ulcers often live in high performers. Those who equate worth with productivity. Who don't stop until the task is done—even if it means burning themselves out in the process.
Reflection Questions:
What internal pressure is grinding me down?
Where have I turned anger inward instead of expressing it?
What's burning inside me that needs acknowledgment?
How can I soften the fire and rebuild protection?
Chronic Nausea: The Body's Quiet Protest
Nausea is the gut's quiet protest. A warning. A refusal. A somatic whisper: "This is not right."
It often emerges when you're forcing yourself to tolerate what you know is wrong—a relationship, a job, a dynamic that violates your truth. Your body doesn't want to digest it. So it pushes it back. You feel the need to eliminate toxic experiences and emotions. You have a tendency to worry and may have grown up in a stressful environment.
Chronic nausea can also echo unprocessed violation. Moments where you needed to reject, resist, say no—and couldn't. So the body holds that recoil.
Reflection Questions:
What am I being asked to stomach that I can't?
Where have I overridden my body's clear no?
What would it look like to stop pretending something is okay when it's not?
What truth wants to rise through the nausea?
Learning to Listen to Your Body's Wisdom
Your body is a vast intelligence in form. It is your unique vessel to create and explore your world. When you settle down to hear its language, it will offer what you need to know.
Every cramp or wave of nausea is communication. Every moment of inexplicable knowing is your inner guardian showing you where you've abandoned yourself, where you've overridden your truth.
When you reclaim your gut, you reclaim your power. Your right to take up space and to trust what you know before you can explain it. Your capacity to digest life—the nourishing and the challenging—without losing yourself in the process.
The question isn't whether your body is telling the truth.
It's whether you're finally ready to hear it.
Not with your mind. With your gut.
Working With Gut-Based Symptoms Through Somatic Healing
If you're experiencing chronic digestive issues that traditional medicine can't fully explain, somatic healing offers a path to understanding what your body is actually trying to tell you. Through medical intuitive assessment and nervous system regulation, we can track symptoms to their emotional roots and help your body finally release what it's been holding.
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About the Author: Karen Covington is a medical intuitive and somatic life coach specializing in chronic health conditions, life transitions, and mind-body healing. Based in Seattle, she serves clients worldwide through remote sessions combining medical intuitive assessment, breathwork, mindfulness, belief work, and somatic healing practices.